Balance is the key!

The key to riding a bike is balance, no balance and you'll find yourself face first on the asphalt! The key to success in life is no different, it's all about balance, however finding the right balance in life is somewhat more difficult than balancing on a bike (unless of course you've had a few vino's, then balancing on a bike can be a little more challenging).

After a relaxing holiday in the sun last week, I have come back refreshed with a new lease on life and a clear vision of what I want (though that could just be my 2nd glass of wine talking). I'm having success in my career and actually feeling really positive in this space, I finally feel like I've found my balance in the work/mum juggling act that isn't always easy. My fears of no longer being successful in my career have disappeared as I realise I am still the same career focused woman I have always been, only difference is it's now not my number 1 priority in life.

Last Sunday I enjoyed a great ride with some great friends on a sunny Melbourne spring morning, and whilst my fitness is nothing like it used to be, the chance to get out and ride and chat and be me was such an amazing feeling and a great way to spend a Sunday morning. Lately I've found it all too easy to find reasons not to exercise, too tired, too busy with work, wanting to spend time with Mia. Sunday made me realise just how much I need exercise to be me! It's who I am, it's in my blood, not just going to the gym but getting out in the fresh air and going for a ride or a run. It's been almost 2 years since I last ran and for the first time this week I had the desire to run again, though given a weak pelvic floor this could end in disaster! 

I even baked this week, healthy treats of course! Yes I'm a bit of a nanna, but baking is therapeutic and good for the sole! Plus it gives Mia and I healthy treats to snack on. I think Mia is thanking her lucky stars that she's got a mum that loves cooking so much!

The time spent with Mia this week has been better than ever, as all I've done is focused on her during that time, the dishes and chores can wait, work can be done when she's in bed and I've set aside time just for me. It's amazing how much more you appreciate time with a child when you are completely present and attentive and not worrying about jobs that need to be done. Though Mia is a pretty good little helper so we do manage to do washing together, just need to teach her to only take clothes off the clothes line when dry not wet, and to put clothes in the drawers not take them out. I've not rushed bedtime once this week but rather let her choose books for me to read, the squeals of delight as she chooses another book is music ever to my ears and I don't even care if I'm creating a child that will ask for millions of stories before bed time!

I want my little girl to see me for me, not just me as mum. I want to be the best female role model that she has in life, I want to teach her that she can be whatever she wants to be and that you don't have to make choices in life because you really can have it all, sure you may need to prioritise, but with the right balance you really can have it all.